Category: Media

  • Chappelle and his immaculate use of outrage and empathy

    Chappelle and his immaculate use of outrage and empathy

    To listen instead of read.

    This is the tale of a human storyteller. A new Dave Chappelle special has dropped on Netflix and the twitterati are buzzing with outrage. Some want him cancelled. Some want the critics cancelled. The rest are busy living normal lives. Everyone knows about ‘The Closer’. As always, the arrow hit its target and as an artist working among an increasingly fragile audience, this one was magnificent. Dave Chappelle is a genius. Whether you like him or not (on account of his comedy and/or opinions), there is no denying the genius of this comic. He jokes about everyone and everything. To quote everyone, “Nobody is safe!”

    The promo courtesy of Dave Chappelle, Netflix, and YouTube

    What do people really expect when they go to a Chappelle show I wondered? I think I have an answer. Stories. People go for the story. Chappelle recites jokes but what he does so well is storytelling. He talks to his audience, even the ones watching on Netflix. He draws us in with a cult leader-esque persona. Chappelle talks softly, then screams, dances, and sings. He doesn’t force the audience to listen – he makes them want to listen. Like a skilled magician who changes cards with a sleight of hand, Chappelle uses storytelling to do the same with his audience’s thoughts.

    Familiarity

    He sings familiar songs or mutters popular catchphrases before he cracks the tough-to-digest jokes to engage the audience and ease them into the painful yet hard-hitting premise of the joke. These jokes are the pointers leading to a social premise.

    Relatability

    He talks about someone he knows (from high school, within his personal circle of friends and family, at the comedy store, from some random bar on the road, et cetera). He does this to draw the audience into his life, making them feel as if they are one of his people. People like to belong in a tribe (especially when it is the tribe of someone famous). He makes use of relatable tropes to bond with his audience. This conditioning makes the blow from the premise softer when it comes.

    Surprise

    He uses the gift of ambiguity. Using reflective humour, Chappelle introduces the main premise of his special (which is often a social issue relating to race). He dodges the issue (mostly) by making things about himself (and not the issue per se). There is a shock value to his humour, a shock value that comes and slaps you in the face. These hard-hitting jokes encourage the audience to be human, even in the face of inhuman behaviour.

    The Format

    Chappelle says whatever he wants to say while saying he can’t say this out loud (making the appearance of the outrage around his humour and the cancel culture mob seem prophetic). He connects the outrage with empathy conveying the message of humanity to most people (who watch the whole thing). If you skim and scan though, you will only experience the outrage, you won’t notice the empathy, and the humanity of it all will be lost on you. If you watch a little clip, you will be triggered because the language he uses is fiery, sometimes incendiary.

    Do you remember the jesters from a King’s Court from back in the day? Their job was to act silly, crack jokes and poke fun at the powerful people present in the court. Since time immemorial, comedians have been allowed to discuss and joke about subjects that are (morally) wrong and/or (socially) risqué in order to focus on the greater truths (whatever those are). Now though, comedians cannot say certain things. People pay money, go to shows or click on the shows and then, they call for it to be cancelled just because they didn’t like what they heard/saw.

    To quote Chappelle himself,

    I don’t have to agree with all the art I consume, but it helps me understand how I actually feel about it.

    He is honest in a way that could get the audience to turn on him in a single instance. If he doesn’t handle the premise properly, people would do more than just boo him off the stage. The genius of Chappelle lies here. He uses outrage and empathy to draw his audiences in and he reminds them of their humanity and the humanity of the fellow man – everyone loves to laugh, especially during inappropriate moments.

    I say, we let him do it for as long as he wants to. I say, we encourage more artists to be brave rather than constricted by some random dos and don’ts list made by people who do nothing but complain all day. If he does get cancelled, I guess it would be alright. To quote Chappelle for the last time, “It’s okay! My career ended many years ago.” 

    With that concluding note, let the begging commence. Let me know what you thought about this piece. While you do that, click on my other stuff as well alongside signing up for my cutesy, nerdy newsletter.

  • How Makoto Shinkai’s Kimi no Nawa left me feeling broken

    How Makoto Shinkai’s Kimi no Nawa left me feeling broken

    An audio recording of the blog

    I have been feeling low lately. Low would be an understatement but that’s how we will leave it right now. Then, I did something. Against my better judgement, which screamed at me, I re-watched Kimi no Na wa. Makoto Shinkai fantasy romance Your Name (君の名は, Kimi no Na wa) is a 2016 Japanese animated movie (anime) and it broke me.

    I feel empty.

    I feel…alone.

    To quote Miyamizu Mitsuha (the female protagonist of the movie) and Tachibana Taki, (the male protagonist of the movie),

    Once in a while when I wake up, I find myself crying. The dream I must have had I can never recall. But the sensation that I’ve lost something lingers for a long time after I wake up. I’m always searching for something, for someone. This feeling has possessed me I think from that day when the stars came falling. It was almost as if a scene from a dream. Nothing more, nothing less than a beautiful view.

    I feel like I’m always searching for someone, or something.

    …I’m not sure if I’m searching for a person or a place, or if I’m just searching for a job.

    Ichikawa, M., Kawaguchi, N., Ota, K., Shinkai, M., Kamiki, R., Kamishiraishi, M., Narita, R., FUNimation Productions, Ltd., (2017). Kimi no na wa = Your name.

    I really don’t know why I am writing this blog. Something just compelled me to start writing. All I know right now is this emptiness. It feels like it will devour me whole. I have tried musubi (gathering the threads and connecting with people through time). I have tried loving and accepting myself. I have tried a lot of things. Yet that emptiness lingers on, spreading a miasma of despair through my heart and then my mind.

    Just like the main theme of this movie, the reasoning and the logic behind my state is enigmatic. It is beyond me. It eludes me. Where does this emptiness comes from?

    Just like the protagonists of this movie, the desire to find that which I love is intangible. I know you feel it too sometimes; we all do. How can we not? We are all looking for love. A person. A feeling. A purpose of existence. Love. Not just love, understanding. That’s what broke me. I lack understanding. I don’t understand myself. I don’t understand the world around me. I just…don’t understand anymore. Why is it this hard?

    Grandma Miyamizu Hitoha says this,

    Treasure the experience. Dreams fade away after you wake up.  

    Ichikawa, M., Kawaguchi, N., Ota, K., Shinkai, M., Kamiki, R., Kamishiraishi, M., Narita, R., FUNimation Productions, Ltd., (2017). Kimi no na wa = Your name.

    … and then she says this,

    Past this point is kakuriyo; the underworld! In exchange for returning to this world, you must leave behind what is most important to you.

    Ichikawa, M., Kawaguchi, N., Ota, K., Shinkai, M., Kamiki, R., Kamishiraishi, M., Narita, R., FUNimation Productions, Ltd., (2017). Kimi no na wa = Your name.

    I have treasured my experiences as much as I can. I really did. Why then does it feel like the dreams faded away even before they showed up? Why am I such an aimless, rudderless boat, drifting in a river of mediocrity? I just… I just don’t know.

    In spite of how much this movie made me cry, to the point where I couldn’t breathe for a bit, I recommend you watch it. Sometimes, you just have to let it all out. Sometimes, we all feel profoundly lonely and spend years seeking our better halves – jobs, people, purpose; it could be anything. Sometimes, we all feel broken, empty. It’s okay. Tonight, it was my turn to break and feel it all.

    When Taki drinks the Kuchikamizake and we see what he sees, our hearts break. When Taki and Mitsuha meet on the edge of the mountain in tasogare-doki (twilight) and Taki writes what he does on Mitsuha’s hand, the words she really needed to hear, our hearts ache. Where is it? Where is that tether, that bond? Why can’t I find it? Why can’t I find any spiritual connection? What did I do wrong with my life, my choices? Why is my string of fate so utterly tattered rather than red and knotted to perfection? なんで?

    Today was my late grandmother’s birthday. There’s so much I wanted to tell her, thank her for. I wished for one more moment with her but nothing came. Why isn’t my love transcending time, space and mortality, and allowing me to meet her where things blur? I know she is gone…but not truly gone (because I remember her). Why does it still hurt this much?

    I guess Uzumaki Naruto said it best,

    It hurts when the person who gave you the best memories becomes a memory.

    Kishimoto, Masashi. Naruto. [Series]. Tokyo: Shueisha, 1999.

    It hurts. I don’t know why but it does.

    I get like this sometimes. Do you as well? Do you just absolutely shatter? I do. I shatter all the time. This feeling of not being enough just envelops me. It’s okay though because I am my own Tachibana Taki in that regard.

    I wanted to tell you that… Wherever you may end up in this world, I will be searching for you. – Taki Tachibana

    Ichikawa, M., Kawaguchi, N., Ota, K., Shinkai, M., Kamiki, R., Kamishiraishi, M., Narita, R., FUNimation Productions, Ltd., (2017). Kimi no na wa = Your name.

    In the end…

    I am still feeling low and I am still crying. Don’t worry, I will be alright. I hope you are alright as well. If you aren’t, know that you are not alone. Miles away, you have the company of this morose, twenty-something girl who is, as she types this, attempting to feel it all. Just like you, she is trying to fill herself with feelings; ‘full of pep’ as my adorable penpal calls it.

    I have been feeling lower than I generally do and that is okay.

    Everything will be alright eventually…right?

    My logo Binati Sheth
    Your honourable scribe

    I don’t generally post my emotions online because emotions are fleeting. However, just this once, I did. You can also contact me, anytime. If you want to, feel free to check out my work.